Finding a True Friend

            All people in this world always need a friend. Friend has deep meaning inside it rather than just a simple word. Friend is someone that always understands and reminds you when you do something wrong. A true friend can know your situation even you do not tell it. A true friend directly will know your condition from your face or your simple words. The important thing is a true friend never hurts her/his friend consciously. A true friend always knows how to make her or his friend laugh rather than cry.  Even though I never have been hurt by my best friends, I have also an experience when I suggested one of my friends in E class who was always hurt by her friend to speak out and finish that problem in a good way. As I look back, I realized that a simple wrong attitude could hurt your friend and change your whole life.

            Dayu Madriani and Rose are my friends in E class. Rose thought that Dayu Madriani was her close friend but Dayu Madriani did not think so. Even Rose thought that Dayu Madriani was her close friend, she always hurt Dayu Madriani and did not understand Dayu Madriani’s feeling. According to Dayu Madriani, she said that Rose is a moody, egoist, and childish person who can make people beside her feel uncomfortable. Rose always did something that could hurt Dayu Madriani’s feeling without regretting what she had done. She could get angry with Dayu Madriani without a reasonable reason and did not speak at Dayu Madriani for several days. The awkward thing is that she could smile and laugh at Dayu Madriani without any explanation how could she smile at Dayu Madriani after getting angry with Dayu Madriani for several days. Rose could get angry with a simple thing easily and directly she would angry with Dayu. At that time, Dayu Madriani only knew how to cry rather than how to speak out. I really disappointed with Rose’s attitudes and then I suggested Dayu Madriani to speak out to make Rose know and realize what she had done.

            After suggesting Dayu Madriani to speak out, she wanted to do that. I told her that she should tell Rose what she had done, how her feeling was, and some suggestion to make Rose realize about her attitudes. In the fact, Rose reaction was different from Dayu Madriani and my expectation. She did not realize what she had done and she thought that she never did something wrong. She also felt that she never hurt Dayu Madriani’s feeling. Dayu Madriani got very angry and she decided not to be as close as before with Rose. Dayu Madriani thought that it was enough to be hurt by Rose.

            Now, Dayu Madriani has already found her own best friends like Ita and Eno. Ita and Eno never hurt Dayu Madriani’s feeling. Dayu Madriani is always happy. Rose’s life is different from Dayu Madriani’s life. Now, she does not have any close friend in our class or outside the class. The important thing is she still hurts someone’s feeling with her own attitudes. In E class, she is very famous because of her attitudes. Finally, wrong attitudes of Rose that hurt Dayu Madriani could change whole life of Rose.